27th day...

It's the 27th day of being independent.. Come to think of it, time flies. It's only the 27th day without hubby.. Another 3 months to go!

Having thinking about yesterday's arugements, it really looked silly. We haven't being fighting over little things for quite sometime.. As we understands each other's position & do not want to add on stress to each other, we did not talk about the bad things although we do have the chance to update each other daily. Hence when things gather up, it will soon be overloaded as we have been handling daily work, making decisions & facing problems ourselves.

Couples tends to fight for small issues & hurt each other unintentionally. That's what both of us did to each other last night. I said something extremely hurting to him.. unintentionally! Believe me, my intention is to tell hubby that what my thinking is & what is correct but the words I have used are inappropriate. He did the same to me... Saying somethings which hurts me tremendously. But nevertheless, we know how to deal with it. By not talking on the phone, hubby used msn to talk to me instead. In this way, both of us will not hear each other's angry voices but only see the wordings.. haha..

Of course, we managed to talk things out. It was nothing serious.. It's just the chauvinistic character that both of us has.. That doesn't affect our relationship :P As it is stronger that you think... keke... We have went thru lots, sailing thru the good times & the bad! Although hubby sometimes irritates me, but afterall he does it unintentionally & for my own good. Wow.. I can't believe I said these.. think when hubby saw all these, he will fly! Anyway HUBBY, sometimes can you THINK THINK THINK before you talk & decide things? And most importantly, DON'T REPEAT! You sounded like an old ah pek! So lo so!!